Ask Kait: What Are the Best Hands-Free, Clitoral Vibrators?

Rachael asks:

I’m curious about the Eva 2. I’ve read the reviews and they’re mixed about it staying in place, and I get very wet. What are your thoughts? Is there something similar that is a hands-free clitoral stimulator?

Rachael—

I went directly to my friends at Dame for their perspective. Because Eva 2 is such a unique toy, they’ve compiled fit tips from users and creators to help every body enjoy this hands-free clitoral vibrator. 

One of the tips explains how Eva fits every vulva differently. Placing it when it’s not vibrating may help you figure out the best placement, whether that’s between your inner or outer labia. Dame also suggests trying Eva alone first, adjusting how far apart your legs are, and even flipping Eva. 

I love this page because every vulva is a little different, so figuring out what works for you is a very individual journey. Plus one of the best ways to avoid getting stuck in a rut with your toys is to use them in a variety of ways.  

Regarding your propensity for wetness, Dame says,

Lubricant is often used to enhance the sensation of a vibrator, but friction plays a part in how Eva’s wing’s stay in place. Avoid getting excessive lube on Eva’s wings.”

I hope this information helps you get a sense of whether Eva is a good toy option for you. Keep in mind that Dame does offer a 60 day, no questions asked return policy if you want to give Eva a run before deciding.

As to the second part of your question, YES, there are other options for a hands-free, clitoral stimulator. 

Four Hands-Free Clitoral Sex Toys

Sync

Sync is one of the top vibrators I recommend to people with a clitoris and those who love them. It’s super adjustable, meaning you get a custom fit for your body. With two “arms,” it provides both g-spot and clitoral stimulation, and you can control the vibrations you want in each end—giving you the exact type of stimulation you love and need. Plus, there are countless ways to play with it during all types of sex, from handjobs to anal. 

Moxie

Moxie is a new wearable vibrator. It uses a magnet to stay in place in your panties, nestled right against your clitoris, vulva, and vaginal opening, where most of the nerve endings in the vagina are. Use it while you’re out on a sexy date night or from the comfort of your bed or couch. I love the fantasy and role play opportunities with Moxie.

Personally, I prefer the vibrations in both of these over Eva. They’re a little deeper and more rumbly: think bass versus tenor. On the other hand, they do take up a bit more space than Eva and therefore have a different impact on intercourse. 

Vibrating cock rings

Vibrating cock rings are another fabulous option when paired with a dildo, penis, or finger(s). My clients’ favorite is the Mio, thanks to its stretchy-but-snug ring (I can fit it around my wrist), deep vibrations, and smooth surface that nestles between the labia. With every thrust, rock, or roll (seriously—try it with the coital alignment technique) your clitoris gets the sensation that many people with vulvas need to experience orgasm. As an added bonus, cock rings also help a partner with a penis stay harder, longer, and are a sexy and fun way to keep the condom in place.

Evi

Lastly, for a non-vibrating option check out Evi. Unlike most Kegel beads, this Kegel exerciser has a clitoral bar. As you contract and relax your pelvic floor muscles, Evi rocks back and forth against your clitoris and g-spot. Plus you get to strengthen your orgasm muscles! It’s unlike any other toy I’ve experienced and worth a try. Note that if you’re dealing with sexual pain, urinary incontinence, or lower back pain, it’s best to check in with a pelvic floor physical therapist before starting any Kegels or strengthening regimen.

The best hands-free clitoral vibrator is one that you use and that brings you pleasure

No matter what I or anyone else thinks, the important part is that you have a toy box full of goodies that you enjoy. 

Kait xo

PS Need some help deciding on a hands-free clitoral vibrator? I’ve helped thousands of people find the best toy(s) for them. Click here to schedule a complimentary toy consultation

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